On Sunday March 18th, I went to bed promising myself that I’d walk to work the next day, from Kitukutwe (Kitty Town) to Naalya – about 12 kilometers. I had come to the realization that I wasn’t investing sufficient physical capital and therefore compromising the health of my body. I thought I’d give it some shock by subjecting it to a 12km walk!
I woke up the next day and it was raining!!! It wasn’t torrential. It was that ka quiet-ish rain that makes you lose every negotiation with your blanket. “Am I going to walk in this rain?” I asked myself. I was steadily losing the initiative when I jumped out of bed, got ready and decided to take the walk. I knew that I had to keep my promises to myself if I was going to keep growing as a leader. This was no longer just about physical capital, this was a matter of character.
You see, not even my wife knew that I’d made this promise to myself. It was an internal matter. But to grow in character, we must learn to keep our promises to ourselves. Reputation is what others think we are, but character is who we really are. One of the top requirements in character growth is GRIT. Because situations and conditions are always changing, the only tool a leader has in their arsenal for leading self is GRIT!
I am an observer of life, and I have realized that it’s not the most talented who achieve greatness, it’s the most tenacious. In every area of life, be it sports, music, business, leadership, marriage, name it; the people with great success have had something in common, and that’s GRIT. Others may have had great talent or gifting, or even great opportunities, but those don’t last. It’s the tenacious who keep building and going in the same direction for years, and when they succeed, people assume they only began yesterday!
We used to go swimming with my friend Timothy Sebalamu. We’d set out to do a certain number of laps across the pool, usually 20 to 40 laps both ways, meaning 40 – 80 one way. We’d start swimming the breast stroke at a moderate pace. Guys would come around and do wonders – diving, butterfly stroke, racing across the pool etc. They then go out, order drinks and hang around. Sometimes they’d even leave, while we were still in the pool, going from end to end with a moderate paced breast stroke. That experience taught me a lot about grit and staying power.
- Do you make promises to yourself?
- Do you keep your promises to yourself?
- Do you keep your word to others?
- Do you keep time regardless of circumstances?
- Do you turn in your assignments in time?
- Do you write through writer’s block?
- Do you sing through the tears?
- Do you preach through the doubts?
- Do you play through the pain?
- Do you walk through the rain?
- DO YOU HAVE GRIT???
Make a promise to yourself this week, AND KEEP IT! Have a gritty one!
This is good.
Are we true to ourselves and others?
. Reputation is what others think we are, but character is who we really are….my take home… Thanks Mosze.. I find it hard keeping promises to myself… Challenging… Thank you…
You can do it!
Good reminder. Kale let me taste my grit
Awesome. Do it now!
It is the choices we make, not the chances that we take that will lead us to the right place.
Awesome quote
Thanks Mozse, making promises to ourselves and having the grit to keep those promises, even when it is only us that know them is a BIG thing. Thanks for the inspiration! When I grow up, I want to be like you!
Lol… when I grow up!
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Thanks mosze…..
Anytime
Wow! What a way to start the week! Especially considering how rainy it’s started out. 😂
I know…
Reading through this blog has made me realize that my GRIT level is very low. I am doing something about it.
Did you finally make it to Nalya? It’s quite a journey.
Thanks for sharing.
I did!
Great blog I was thinking about it It ALL boils down to grit
Thank you
Anytime Dr
Precise and to the point.
I am challenging myself on this?
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The question that comes in mind is “Do i commit to myself?”
Good question. And the answer???
The number of promises to self I have broken is countless…well thanks for giving it a name GRIT….am gonna get my GRIT on self starting now!
Awesome
No truer words have ever been spoken. So did you make that walk to work? How was it? 😀
I did. 2 hours
First I had to google the word Grit and the conviction came in for many times I have promised myself to watch and read a chapter of my ACCA books .
Hmmm…Mosze let me commit and ACE the paper due in June…
Great move Clare…
Well said. Powerful lesson. Thanks
Very inspiring!!! Great way to start the week. Set yourself goals and have the GRIT to see them through…
Way to go
Thanks Pastor Moses.
Thanks..it’s good to hear other people’s experiences when we are also struggling with some areas of self leadership
Very sobering am at a point myself where am planning to let go of some important things in my life ….am wondering if I will be making the right decisions
Eeeehhhh naye mukama really wanted me to read this. I made a promise to myself to start walking this week. This morning i was debating whether to start today as promised or push to tomorrow since its rained. Now I have to do it mazima. My character is on the line…..
Thanks Mosze.
Walking oyeeeee…
Wow this is mind wrecking Woooow thanks Mosze Character defines who we are
This is one for action, thank you for sharing this life changing nugget with us……on it.
Banange, dem lessons of life keep coming…. Thanks for sharing, I feel what you are saying and may God help me!
He’s your help
Thank you Mosze really for this blog. Action..Action..Action.
What about the days when you have no energy left for the gritty tenacious walk?
I guess you lie down, recuperate and give it another shot. NO GIVING UP!!!!
🙂 No giving up, indeed!
Feels like I am across the table from you.
Personal check.
Thank you.
Thanks Mosze. This is exactly what I needed and am doing something about it.
Zinsanze nze. Thanks Mosze, surely God has used you to find me and am seriously working on my character.
Awesome inspiration and challenge. The ‘rain’ (can be any thing else in our circumstances) is really to test your character. I’ve learned a lot and I am going to discuss this with my accountability partner. Because if I was to rate my grit… So low. Action time it is!
Truth be told, without one pushing him/herself into attaining the desired goal no one will have the audacity to do so. It takes character to break the chains that tend to trap us.
Thank you Mosze
Nkugambye!!!!!! Ekigambo kya GRIT!
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Nice one Mozse!!!
This is great stuff Mo
I am making a gritty promise and keeping it
Thank you for sharing your grit story with us, so inspiring as well as challenging. I promise to keep committed to the promises I make.
just what i needed! thanks
Thanks for the encouragement, Mosze.